Many people have requested that we do this interview with an escort, and it appears that many people are interested in what it takes to be an escort, so we decided to give you a real-life insight into the world of being a high-class call girl!
In our society, there are many professions that are shrouded in mystery and secrecy. One such profession is that of an escort. Often misunderstood and subject to stereotypes, escorts play a unique role in providing companionship and intimacy to their clients. In this article, we will delve into the world of escorting, debunk misconceptions, and gain insights through an exclusive interview with a professional escort.
I had the opportunity to interview a luxury escort, Jessica.
We met a few of the best escorts in Kolkata (sex workers) for the documentary, and thankfully, my role was to interpret between the sex workers and Serina, so I spoke with them directly. One thing we saw was that the majority of the sex workers we spoke with fell into this business after experiencing a negative event in their personal lives. We spoke with Jessica, who was originally from Mumbai but now resides in Kolkata.
For this post, we felt it would be best to interview one of our agency's most popular girls, Jessica. She is also wonderful at what she does and is an intriguing girl. Jessica is extremely outgoing and lively, but she also has a great personality, which you can see the moment you meet her. It also helps that Jessica is one of Kolkata's hottest escorts right now, with fantastic boobs and an arse that will blow your mind.
An interview with a real kolkata escorts
What is your home country?
- I am from Mumbai, India.
How long have you been escorting?
- I've been in Kolkata for nearly 5 years now.
Have you always worked here in Kolkata?
- Kolkata is the finest city in the world, and I would only want to work and live there!
Do you enjoy living here in Kolkata?
- Of course, I do, my love! I have everything I need within a 5-minute walk, including the greatest pubs, restaurants,
incredible clubs, and vast green areas!
What other jobs have you had?
- I trained as a beautician who also did hair and makeup and ran a thriving company back home.
Who introduced you to escorting?
- My closest friend, who is also on this site, came to Kolkata first, and when I came to visit, I couldn't believe how much
money she was making and the lifestyle she had! I wanted to have that as well.
Do you like what you do?
- Come on, you know I dislike it. I fucking adore it!
Can you remember your first client?
- Nope, not at all (Jessica smiles).
Are you friends with many of the other escorts at the agency?
- I am friends with many of the other escorts in Kolkata; many of us knew one another from our homes, and many of us met via employment. We're all quite sociable and love each other's company. You've seen images of our nights out, so you know we're all great pals!
Do you get taken on holiday much?
- I was booked as a travel companion a few times recently, and myself and this nice gentleman went away to Goa, where we lay on a beach for two weeks and had the most amazing time. We dressed up at night, and after our evening was over, we really dressed up! It was stunning.
Do you get taken out by clients for dinner?
- People always want to spend time with me, and I believe it's because I talk to them about themselves. I'm intrigued to learn about other people's lives and experiences.
What's your favourite restaurant that you’ve been to?
- This is going to sound so cliche, but I like the cuisine and atmosphere of 6 Ballygunge Place.
Where do you get your gorgeous lingerie?
- Anywhere! PURE SHAPE LINGERIE, Just Relax, Pink Hotty, Royal Rose with a figure like mine, any lingerie is sexy
Are all your clients male?
- I have a mix of males and couples (a man and a woman); I never see two men at the same time!
Do you have many regulars?
- People keep coming back to me, so thank you, James (it's not me; it's our team and the reception team who sort that out).
- What is the oddest request you've ever received?
- One guy requested that I go to the gym, where he would pay me, work out, but wear my trainers without socks; when I returned home, he didn't want me to wash them, and he would come to "look after" my feet!
Do you enjoy sex?
- What a silly question! Isn't this true for every woman? We are all humans, and this is in our nature! You should understand.
Have you ever been in a threesome?
- All the time, and I love them!
Are you actually truthful in your profile?
What is the regular booking process for you?
- Mostly in calls, when the client arrives, I usually guide him to the shower since it's the best way to get started, and then we simply leave things to nature and chemistry.
What is the most popular clothing request you receive?
- For me, it's a seductive secretary; I once performed a photo session wearing simply such attire and received a lot of work!
What's your ideal night out?
- Any night!
Where is your favourite holiday destination?
- A beach with a gorgeous blue sky and waves lapping at my feet.
Is there anything about your job that you struggle with?
- I am turning people away because I am too busy.
Do you ever feel judged about what you do?
- No, why would anyone want to judge me? I have no intention of causing anyone harm. In fact, I help others feel good about themselves! People grin more as they leave me than when they come.
What makes you so effective at what you do?
- It's just me, sweetie.
We hope you enjoyed Jessica's quick chat; she had a towel wrapped around her waist and was about to leave for an outcall.
If you have any queries for any of the escorts, please direct them to the receptionist, who will send them forward.
This makes for excellent reading and provides valuable information about the females you will encounter through this escort agency!
Do you feel comfortable with it?
- I don't have any options. Without sex employment, I would be impoverished.
- So, do you believe it is 'not a choice' in the sense that you cannot truly consent because there are no alternatives?
- So, yes and no. The males have so much financial influence over us that we may refuse the money, but it's quite difficult not to.
I am concerned about being forced into sex work. Would you like to see more possibilities for young women to earn a decent income outside of sex work?
Well, to be honest, I don't think that will happen. Men don't want women to gain power, and they won't give us better employment until we start a suffragette-style riot.
Have you ever been in an unpleasant scenario as a sex worker?
- Almost every circumstance is uncomfortable. I typically offer one-on-one cam shows in which I meet possible sugar daddies, and practically every person attempts to haggle, accuses me of being a fraud, demands a free'sample', harasses me, and wastes my time. Only around 40% of males that approach me for a performance are serious about making a purchase. This is the most distressing aspect of my profession, and it makes my blood boil.
I just did a cam show in which I had to spank myself with a brush, put my father's belt over my neck, and put the hairbrush inside of me, which was quite unpleasant.
Is it tough for you emotionally to work in this field?
- Yes. I was already leery of men when I started in this job, but now I absolutely loathe them. My customers are regular men: teachers, builders, bankers, dads, spouses, boyfriends, and bosses. When I meet a man, my first thought is if he is one of those who harasses sex workers like myself. Their conduct is really disgusting and offensive to me. They approach me aggressively.
How would you describe the men who approach you for sex work?
- Annoying, needy, cheap, unpleasant, desperate, and misogynistic. About 80% of men actually buy the goods, so this excludes the number of timewasters who frequently try to bargain, make insulting, lowball offers, ask for discounts (when they haven't even bought a show, mind you), make appointments they don't show up to, and become angry, aggressive, or offended when I tell them I don't meet for sex. Oh, and they like abusing their perceived 'authority'. They are fucking delusional.
Would you think that these people look down on sex workers?
- Oh my gosh, yes. One of them told me, "Know your place.". Basically, all of them. I'm regarded as a subhuman; they genuinely believe I should work for free or inhumane wages; you're essentially a slave in their view, and they shouldn't have to pay for it. This is how they view us. As slaves.
Should sex work be legal and regulated? Will that make you feel safer?
- Yes. People believe SESTA will save us, but giving police control over sex workers is the worst thing we can do. This is how we are raped and robbed.
Is sex work an option?
- Yes, almost usually. I believe it is only in cases of sex trafficking that it is not an option. Nobody is forcing me to work, but I would be quite broke without it. Without sex work, I would not have Chanel bags that were ready to wear.
The Role and Responsibilities of an Escort
Contrary to popular belief, being an escort goes beyond simply providing physical intimacy. Escorts are skilled professionals who offer companionship, emotional support, and intellectual stimulation to their clients. They play a crucial role in fulfilling the needs and desires of individuals who may be seeking a connection on a deeper level. It is essential to understand that the services provided by escorts are consensual and mutually agreed upon by both parties involved.
Escort services can range from accompanying clients to social events, providing a listening ear during conversations, or even engaging in intimate encounters. The responsibilities of an escort go beyond the physical aspect and require excellent communication skills, empathy, and the ability to create a safe and comfortable environment for their clients.
Insights into the Escort's Experiences and Challenges
Jessica's insights into her experiences as an escort shed light on the emotional and psychological aspects of her work. She emphasized the importance of maintaining a balance between professional and personal life and the necessity of self-care to prevent burnout. While her work can be emotionally demanding, she finds fulfillment in helping others and creating meaningful connections.
The Importance of Safety and Consent in the Escort Industry
Safety and consent are paramount in the escort industry. It is crucial for escorts to establish clear boundaries and communicate with their clients to ensure a safe and consensual experience. This includes discussing expectations, preferences, and limitations before engaging in any activities. Escorts often take additional measures, such as informing a trusted friend or utilizing safety apps, to ensure their well-being during appointments.
Tips for Those Considering Becoming an Escort
For individuals considering entering the escort industry, it is essential to approach this profession with caution and awareness. Here are some tips for those considering becoming an escort:
- Educate yourself: Take the time to research and understand the realities of the industry, including legal regulations and safety precautions.
- Establish boundaries: Clearly define your boundaries and communicate them to potential clients. Prioritize your safety and well-being.
- Seek support: Connect with other escorts or join communities where you can share experiences and receive guidance.
- Prioritize self-care: The emotional and physical demands of being an escort can be draining. Take care of yourself by prioritizing self-care activities and seeking support when needed.
The Emotional and Psychological Aspects of Being an Escort
Being an escort requires navigating complex emotional and psychological dynamics. Escorts often provide emotional support to their clients, which can be both rewarding and challenging. It is essential for escorts to establish personal boundaries and engage in self-care practices to ensure their emotional well-being. Seeking therapy or counseling can also be beneficial to process any emotional challenges that may arise from the profession.
The Legalities and Regulations Surrounding Escorting
The legalities and regulations surrounding escorting vary from country to country and even within different regions. It is crucial for escorts to familiarize themselves with the laws and regulations in their specific area of work. This includes understanding age restrictions, consent laws, and any licensing or registration requirements that may be in place. Staying informed and compliant with the legal framework is essential for both the safety of the escort and their clients.